Joining a spouse in the U.S.: first steps after arrival
Joined your spouse on an IR1, CR1, F2A or K-1 visa? First steps: your green card, address, Social Security, work, the K-1 90 days and 2-year cards.
At a glance
- Who this is for: you’ve moved to the U.S. to live with your husband or wife. You came with an immigrant visa as the spouse of a U.S. citizen (an IR1 or CR1 visa) (State Department) or of a green card holder (the F2A category) (USCIS), or with a K-1 fiancé(e) visa to marry your U.S. citizen partner here (USCIS).
- When: your first weeks. Two clocks start right away: you report every move to USCIS within 10 days (USCIS), and on a K-1 visa you have 90 days to marry (USCIS).
- What you’ll need: your passport with your visa and entry stamp, your marriage certificate, and one folder for copies of everything.
- Cost: immigrant visa holders pay the USCIS Immigrant Fee unless exempt, and K visa holders are exempt (USCIS). Forms such as I-485 have their own fees, on USCIS’s fee schedule (USCIS). A Social Security number is free (SSA).
Step 1 — Know which path you’re on
- Immigrant visa (IR1, CR1 or F2A). When U.S. Customs and Border Protection (CBP) lets you in at the airport or border, you are admitted as a lawful permanent resident (USCIS — Immigrant Fee). Your green card, officially the Permanent Resident Card, comes later by mail (USCIS — Immigrant Fee). Step 5 is not for you.
- K-1 fiancé(e) visa. You are admitted as a nonimmigrant (a temporary status), and you and your partner have 90 days to marry (USCIS — Fiancé(e) visas). After the wedding, you apply for a green card from inside the U.S., which USCIS calls “adjustment of status” (USCIS — Green card for fiancé(e)). Step 2 is not for you.
Step 2 — Immigrant visa: pay the fee, watch for your card
Pay the USCIS Immigrant Fee. USCIS uses it to process your immigrant visa packet and make your green card, and you won’t receive the card until it’s paid (USCIS — Immigrant Fee). You pay online, before you travel or after you arrive. A relative or friend can pay for you with your A-Number and State Department case ID (USCIS — Immigrant Fee). The Immigrant Fee page links to the current amount.
Where the card goes. USCIS mails it to the U.S. address you gave at your visa interview, or to the CBP officer when you arrived (USCIS — Immigrant Fee). If it hasn’t come within 90 days of paying (or of entering, if you paid before you came), USCIS asks you to use its online help form or e-Request tool (USCIS — Immigrant Fee).
Until then, your passport is your proof. An immigrant visa usually says “UPON ENDORSEMENT SERVES AS TEMPORARY I-551 EVIDENCING PERMANENT RESIDENCE FOR 1 YEAR.” With CBP’s admission stamp, your passport shows permanent residence for 1 year from the day you were admitted (USCIS — I-9 Central). Keep it somewhere safe.
When the card arrives, our guide for new green card holders covers what to check, your rights and responsibilities, and Selective Service.
Step 3 — Report your address within 10 days of every move
USCIS says non-citizens in the U.S. must report a change of address within 10 days of moving (USCIS — Change of address). This matters even more before your card arrives: USCIS mails it to the most recent U.S. address it has on file (USCIS — Immigrant Fee). If you move, update USCIS and the Postal Service each time. Our guide to changing your address shows how.
Step 4 — Get your Social Security number
- If you asked for it in your immigrant visa application, the card is mailed to the U.S. address you gave on that application (State Department — IR1/CR1). SSA asks you to contact it if the card hasn’t arrived within 3 weeks of your arrival, and to call if your mailing address changes before it comes (SSA — FAQ).
- If you didn’t ask, you apply at a Social Security office. SSA’s list: your passport with the immigrant visa, your green card if you have it, and your birth record (SSA — FAQ).
- On the K-1 path, Form I-485 has questions that let you ask SSA for a number. You don’t have to use them, but you need a Social Security number in your name to work (USCIS — I-485 instructions). If you ask this way, SSA says the card should come no later than 14 days after your green card (SSA).
Our Social Security number guide explains each route.
Step 5 — K-1 only: marry within 90 days, then file Form I-485
In USCIS’s words, K-1 status “automatically expires after 90 days and cannot be extended.” If you don’t marry, you generally must leave the U.S. at the end of the 90 days (USCIS — Fiancé(e) visas).
After the wedding:
- You can file right away. A K-1 who marries the petitioner within the 90 days can file Form I-485 as soon as they marry, with a copy of the marriage certificate (USCIS — I-485 instructions). You also need a copy of your I-94 arrival record, which you can print from CBP’s website (USCIS — Green card for fiancé(e)); see our I-94 guide.
- Use the current form. Since September 18, 2026, USCIS accepts only the 09/18/26 edition of Form I-485, and on October 7, 2026, it changed where paper forms are mailed (USCIS — I-485). Check the I-485 page on the day you file.
- Include the medical form. If you must submit Form I-693 (the immigration medical exam) or part of it, such as the vaccination record, it goes in with your I-485, or USCIS may reject the application (USCIS — I-485).
- Children on K-2 visas file their own applications (State Department — K-1).
- Don’t travel abroad yet. USCIS says that if you leave the U.S. while your I-485 is pending without an advance parole document, you generally abandon the application (USCIS — Green card for fiancé(e)).
For an I-485 filed after April 1, 2024, a work permit (Form I-765) or travel document (Form I-131) request filed with it needs its own fee (USCIS — I-485). For questions about your own case, see free immigration legal help.
Step 6 — Show that you can work
- Green card holders: your green card proves you can work when you fill in Form I-9 for a new job (USCIS — After we grant your card). Before it arrives, a foreign passport with a temporary I-551 stamp, or the printed I-551 note on your immigrant visa, is on the I-9 list of accepted documents (USCIS — I-9 documents).
- K-1: right after you’re admitted, you may apply with Form I-765 for proof that you can work, but it’s valid only for 90 days after your entry (USCIS — Fiancé(e) visas) and can’t be renewed (USCIS — I-765 instructions). You can also file Form I-765 together with your I-485 (USCIS — I-765). Our work permit guide explains form editions, waiting and renewals.
Then see our guide to finding a job.
Step 7 — Married under 2 years? Your card may be conditional
Your permanent residence is conditional if it’s based on marriage and you had been married less than 2 years on the day you got it, by immigrant visa or through Form I-485 (USCIS — Removing conditions). A conditional green card is valid for 2 years and can’t be renewed (USCIS — Conditional residence). On a CR1 visa, its expiration date is the second anniversary of your entry (State Department). You and your spouse generally file Form I-751 together in the 90 days before it expires (USCIS — Removing conditions).
Start that folder now. For a joint I-751, USCIS asks for copies of “as many documents as you can” showing your relationship from the date of the marriage to the present (USCIS — I-751). Its examples include a joint lease or mortgage, joint bank accounts, joint tax returns, insurance naming your spouse as beneficiary, and joint utility bills (USCIS — I-751 instructions), the kind of papers you create in your first months. Our guide to removing conditions explains the rest.
Step 8 — Get health insurance
HealthCare.gov says you may qualify for a Special Enrollment Period, a chance to buy a Marketplace plan outside the yearly sign-up window, if in the past 60 days you got married or moved to the U.S. from a foreign country (HealthCare.gov). If your spouse has insurance through work, ask soon how you can be added. Our guide to health insurance for newcomers explains the options. On the K-1 path, read its “public charge” step before you apply for public coverage: Form I-485 was revised in September 2026 to match a new public charge rule (USCIS — I-485).
Step 9 — Build a life of your own, too
At first your spouse may be your guide to almost everything. Joint papers show your shared life (Step 7); things in your own name help you stand on your own. Over the first months, consider:
- your own bank account and credit history;
- a driver’s license or state ID;
- free English classes, if you need them;
- friends, through small first steps or people from your home country.
Know where your own passport and papers are, and keep copies. If your spouse hurts, threatens or controls you, including by threatening to withhold or withdraw your immigration petition, USCIS says certain abused spouses can file for themselves without the abuser’s knowledge, consent or participation (USCIS — Abused spouses); see our guide to domestic violence help.
Common mistakes and scams to avoid
- Moving without telling USCIS. Your card goes to the last address USCIS has (see Step 3).
- Letting the K-1 90 days run out, or leaving the U.S. with a pending I-485 and no advance parole (see Step 5).
- Mailing an old form edition, or to an old address (see Step 5).
- Missing the window on a 2-year card (see Step 7).
- Paying someone to “speed up” your case. USCIS’s warning signs include offers to expedite your case for money and emails that don’t end in .gov (USCIS — Avoid Scams). More in our guide to scams that target newcomers.
You’re not alone
Moving for love takes courage. It can also feel strange to depend on one person for your language, your paperwork and your social life all at once. Many people who join a spouse feel this, and it often eases as you build your own routines and friendships. Be patient with yourself, and with each other.
Where to get free, trustworthy help
- USCIS Contact Center: 800-375-5283 (TTY 800-767-1833), live help Monday to Friday, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern (USCIS).
- Social Security: 1-800-772-1213 (SSA).
- Questions about your status or case: you don’t need a representative to file USCIS forms; if you want one, USCIS says to use an attorney or an accredited representative of a Department of Justice–recognized organization (USCIS — Avoid Scams). See free immigration legal help.
- If you’re not safe at home: in an emergency, call 911 (see emergency numbers). The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 800-799-SAFE (7233), TTY 800-787-3224 (USCIS).
- Bringing other relatives later: see our overview of bringing family to the U.S..
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Sources
- U.S. Department of State — Immigrant Visa for a Spouse of a U.S. Citizen (IR1 or CR1) (Internet Archive copy of July 13, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Green Card for Family Preference Immigrants (last reviewed July 8, 2025; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Visas for Fiancé(e)s of U.S. Citizens (last reviewed March 23, 2018; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Green Card for Fiancé(e) of U.S. Citizen (last reviewed July 8, 2025; accessed October 27, 2026)
- U.S. Department of State — Nonimmigrant Visa for a Fiancé(e) (K-1) (Internet Archive copy of July 13, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — USCIS Immigrant Fee (last reviewed April 8, 2024; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Temporary I-551 Stamps and MRIVs (I-9 Central) (last reviewed November 27, 2020; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Form I-9 Acceptable Documents (I-9 Central) (last reviewed October 5, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — After We Grant Your Green Card (last reviewed October 11, 2024; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — How to Change Your Address (last reviewed August 4, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- Social Security Administration — Social Security Numbers and Immigrant Visas (Internet Archive copy of October 11, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- Social Security Administration — Frequently Asked Questions (Immigrant Visas) (Internet Archive copy of January 16, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- Social Security Administration — Apply For Your Social Security Card While Applying For Your Work Permit, Lawful Permanent Residency, or U.S. Naturalization (Internet Archive copy of October 10, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — I-485, Application to Register Permanent Residence or Adjust Status (last reviewed October 7, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Instructions for Form I-485 (edition 09/18/26) (accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — I-765, Application for Employment Authorization (last reviewed October 7, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Instructions for Form I-765 (edition 08/21/25) (accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Conditional Permanent Residence (last reviewed April 24, 2025; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Removing Conditions on Permanent Residence Based on Marriage (last reviewed December 12, 2023; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — I-751, Petition to Remove Conditions on Residence (last reviewed June 16, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Instructions for Form I-751 (edition 04/01/24) (accessed October 27, 2026)
- HealthCare.gov — Special Enrollment Period (SEP) (accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Abused Spouses, Children and Parents (last reviewed June 26, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — Avoid Scams (last reviewed August 4, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
- USCIS — USCIS Contact Center (last reviewed October 13, 2026; accessed October 27, 2026)
Changes to this guide
- October 27, 2026: Draft created (AI-assisted); sources checked. Waiting for human review.
- October 28, 2026: Reviewed and approved by the 4Livo team.